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		<title>What is Burnout?</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 22 Oct 2025 20:39:30 +0000</pubDate>
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	<p>It can be challenging to define <a href="https://www.griefworkcenter.com/vicarious-trauma/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">burnout</a>. Not considered to be a medical condition, the definition of burnout, as stated by the <a href="https://dictionary.apa.org/burnout" target="_blank" rel="nofollow noopener">APA Dictionary of Psychology</a>, is “physical, emotional or mental exhaustion, accompanied by decreased motivation, lowered performance and negative attitudes towards oneself and others.”</p>
<h2>What is burnout?</h2>
<p>Typically, burnout is brought on by drawn out or chronic stress, resulting in mental, physical or emotional fatigue. You know that it is happening when you experience emotional exhaustion, feel overwhelmed and are not able to handle ongoing responsibilities. Consider all of those responsibilities that you have in your personal and professional life. Although issues at work are the primary cause, it can also affect other facets of life including parenting, caring for others, and intimate relationships.</p>
<p>Burnout is a type of fatigue brought on by a constant feeling of being overwhelmed. It can occur when you are emotionally depleted, overburdened, and unable to keep up with life&#8217;s daily demands. Burnout has a detrimental impact on all aspects of life, affecting your home, job, and social life. It can drain your energy, leaving you feeling like you have nothing left to give.</p>
<h3>Is it burnout or stress?</h3>
<p><a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Stress_(biology)" target="_blank" rel="nofollow noopener">Stress</a> is a normal reaction to regular or unusual stresses. It can occasionally last for a prolonged period and develop into a chronic condition. Burnout could result from this, although not necessarily. Being under constant stress doesn&#8217;t necessarily indicate that a person is being burned out.</p>
<p>People who lead stressful lives may experience enormous strain to the point of feeling drained, burned out, and not able to cope. Mental, physical and emotional difficulties might also be caused by stress at work. Possible contributing factors include feeling constantly overworked, continually dealing with deadlines, or having disputes with coworkers. A strong commitment to the job to the point of disregarding their own needs can also be to blame.</p>
<p>Many people use the words &#8220;stress&#8221; and &#8220;burnout&#8221; interchangeably. Although they can be similar, there are some significant differences. For example, stress related to a specific incident is something we all experience occasionally in life.</p>
<p>In contrast, burnout is a reaction to prolonged, extreme stress and results in a person feeling emotionally and physically exhausted, disillusioned, disengaged, and less effective. Burnout can lead to mental health problems including severe depression if it is not treated.</p>
<p>Burnout is the result of unmanaged and accumulated stress over time. Consider burnout to be the bigger, meaner big brother of stress. Generally, burnout needs stress to be present, but stress can exist without being burned out.</p>
<h3>How is burnout different from depression?</h3>
<p><a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Depression_(mood)" target="_blank" rel="nofollow noopener">Depression</a> has some of the same symptoms of burnout, including fatigue, being despondent, and poor performance. Depression frequently manifests as a low sense of self-worth, feeling hopeless, and having suicidal thoughts. These are not considered to be the normal signs of burnout. Depression does not always accompany burnout. However, burnout may make someone more susceptible to developing depression.</p>
<h3>Are you at risk for burnout?</h3>
<p>Let’s take a reality check. Some predictors of burnout are if you:</p>
<ul>
<li>Feel as though you never have a good day</li>
<li>Share an opinion that what you are doing is not worth the effort</li>
<li>Suffer consistently by being too tired to do anything</li>
<li>Consider the tasks you have to complete at work are mind-numbingly boring or overwhelming</li>
<li>Think that nothing you do is worthwhile</li>
<li>Sense that no one appreciates all the work that you do</li>
<li>Are experiencing a loss of motivation</li>
</ul>
<h2>Burnout symptoms</h2>
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<p>It’s no secret that getting out of bed in the morning is not the easiest task of the day. Most of us experience days when we struggle to get out of bed. Although your pillow may be filled with down and your comforter is warm and cuddly, the effort could be due to being overwhelmed or unappreciated, whether at home or at work.</p>
<p>Burnout develops gradually. Like obesity, vision problems or back aches, it can take time to develop as it slowly sneaks up on you. At first, the symptoms and signs are minimal, but they get worse over time.</p>
<p>Consider the early signs as warnings indicating something is wrong and has to be remedied. You can avoid a serious breakdown if you pay attention and properly manage your stress. Ignoring the signs can lead to burn out.</p>
<h3>Emotional symptoms</h3>
<ul>
<li>Feeling of failure and insecurity</li>
<li>Feeling defeated, stuck, and helpless</li>
<li>Feeling alone and detached from everything</li>
<li>No motivation</li>
<li>A more pessimistic and cynical view</li>
<li>Diminished sense of accomplishment and life satisfaction</li>
</ul>
<p>Your emotional wellbeing can be impacted contributing to an increased likelihood for depression, anger, irritability and anxiety.</p>
<h3>Physical symptoms</h3>
<ul>
<li>Most of the time feeling worn out and exhausted</li>
<li>Sick often, weakened immunity</li>
<li>Pain in muscles, recurring headaches</li>
<li>Change in eating habit</li>
<li>Change in sleeping habits that bring about fatigue</li>
</ul>
<p><strong> </strong>Physical wellness is impacted by burnout due to the excessive stress in your body. Your physical wellbeing can be impacted contributing to an increased likelihood for heart disease, high blood pressure, type 2 diabetes, respiratory issues, and likelihood for death before age 45.</p>
<h3>Cognitive symptoms</h3>
<ul>
<li>Difficulty paying attention when someone speaks</li>
<li>Difficulty concentrating on a task</li>
<li>Impaired short-term memory</li>
<li>Impaired judgement</li>
</ul>
<p>Your cognitive wellbeing can be impacted contributing to an increased likelihood for making mistakes at work and poor motor coordination.</p>
<h3>Behavioral symptoms</h3>
<ul>
<li>Withdrawing from personal and professional obligations</li>
<li>Excluding significant others from your life</li>
<li>Putting things off or taking longer to do them</li>
<li>Using coping mechanisms like alcohol, drugs, or food</li>
<li>Taking frustration and anger out on others</li>
<li>Not going to work or working shorter hours</li>
</ul>
<p>Your behavioral or social wellbeing can be impacted contributing to an increased likelihood for alcohol or substance abuse, isolation from friends and family, irresponsibility with finances, anger towards family members and inability to fulfill responsibilities. Professionally, you may experience a loss of job satisfaction, an inability to do your job well, or withdraw from colleagues.</p>
<h2>How to Recover from Burnout</h2>
<p>We have another article on this site that covers ways to <a href="https://www.griefworkcenter.com/blog/how-to-promote-recovery-from-burnout/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">recover from burnout</a> when you are exhibiting some of the symptoms mentioned above. Briefly, they include:</p>
<ul>
<li>Addressing your mental health</li>
<li>Taking breaks throughout the day, especially when you are at work</li>
<li>Exercise on a regular basis</li>
<li>Find things to do that you enjoy</li>
</ul>
<p>It is possible to recover from burnout, even though you may feel completely overwhelmed. It takes some effort and planning to create healthy habits, a good daily routine, and maintain boundaries so that you can be successful both at work and in your personal life.</p>
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		<title>Strategies to Prevent Burnout</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Barbara Rubel]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 24 Sep 2025 18:26:46 +0000</pubDate>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Burnout is one of two elements that make up <a href="https://www.griefworkcenter.com/" target="_blank" rel="nofollow noopener">compassion fatigue</a>, the second one is secondary traumatic stress. Typically, burnout is brought on by drawn out or chronic stress, resulting in mental, physical or emotional fatigue. You know that it is happening when you experience emotional exhaustion, feel overwhelmed and are not able to handle ongoing responsibilities. Consider all of those responsibilities that you have in your personal and professional life. Although issues at work are the primary cause, it can also affect other facets of life including parenting, caring for others, and intimate relationships.</p>
<p>Burnout is a type of fatigue brought on by a constant feeling of being overwhelmed. It can occur when you are emotionally depleted, overburdened, and unable to keep up with life&#8217;s daily demands. Burnout has a detrimental impact on all aspects of life, affecting your home, job, and social life. It can drain your energy, leaving you feeling like you have nothing left to give.</p>
<h2>Strategies to prevent burnout and promote well-being</h2>
<h3>Reach out to other people</h3>
<p>Even though you may not have much energy and problems seem too big to overcome, there are things you can do to take control of the stress and reduce the risk of burnout. Reaching out and talking to other people is a good place to start. Choose someone who won’t try to fix things but is willing to listen. Having a good listener helps alleviate stress and calm your nerves.</p>
<p>Try to not associate with people who are negative. Being around others who complain all the time and have a negative outlook will only drag you down more.</p>
<p><a href="https://www.mayoclinic.org/healthy-lifestyle/stress-management/in-depth/support-groups/art-20044655" target="_blank" rel="nofollow noopener">Join a support group</a> to talk with others facing similar concerns. Sharing with others can become a meaningful experience.</p>
<h3>Review your priorities</h3>
<p>Here are simple ideas worth considering:</p>
<ul>
<li>Review those things that are most important to you and how they make you happy.</li>
<li>Explain times where you can slow down to rest your body and mind.</li>
<li>Describe different ways to say “no” to stop overextending yourself, which gives you the opportunity to say “yes” to the things you choose to do.</li>
<li>Evaluate times during the day or evening when you can unplug from technology, such as a computer, phone, social media and email.</li>
<li>Plan a new creative project or restart an old hobby that you once enjoyed.</li>
<li>Choose techniques such as deep breathing, yoga, tai-chi, or meditation to relax your mind and body and turn off the stress response</li>
<li>Evaluate ways for a better sleep as feeling tired can cause an irrational response in stressful situations</li>
</ul>
<h3>Exercise</h3>
<p>Usually, when you’re tired and stressed out, exercising can be one of the last things you want to do. However, it is a good coping tool for burnout or stress, and one of the best mood enhancers there is. Set a goal for doing some exercise every day for at least 30 minutes. If that is too much for you to do, then break that up into separate 10-minute sessions. Actually, walking is a terrific overall exercise, anything that gets your whole body moving will help improve focus, energy level, and a sense of relaxation and wellbeing.</p>
<h3><img decoding="async" class="aligncenter wp-image-2507" src="https://www.griefworkcenter.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/09/walking.jpg" alt="" width="415" height="507" srcset="https://www.griefworkcenter.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/09/walking.jpg 500w, https://www.griefworkcenter.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/09/walking-245x300.jpg 245w" sizes="(max-width: 415px) 100vw, 415px" />Healthy diet</h3>
<p>The foods you eat have a big impact on how your feel – your mood and energy level, so a <a href="https://www.webmd.com/diet/ss/slideshow-diet-for-stress-management" target="_blank" rel="nofollow noopener">healthy diet</a> is important. Processed or fast foods that are high in sugar and/or carbs will not sustain you throughout the day. A dependency in caffeine has the same effect, of eventually leads to a crash. Nicotine is a stimulant that can lead to even more anxiety, instead of alleviating it. Add foods to your diet that you know are healthy as they will help lower your stress levels, as well.</p>
<h3>Take breaks</h3>
<p>Schedule small breaks every hour or two throughout the day to walk away from what you are working on. This helps the mind to rest and the body to move, if you’ve been sitting.</p>
<h3>Practice mindfulness</h3>
<p><a href="https://www.mindful.org/meditation/mindfulness-getting-started/" target="_blank" rel="nofollow noopener">Mindfulness</a> is considered to being present mentally and emotionally. Deep breathing can help with this because you have to focus on your breath. It also has a very calming effect. Use a few minutes of each break to practice breathing. Weather permitting, spend a few minutes doing this in the outdoors.</p>
<h2>Organizational burnout prevention strategies and wellbeing</h2>
<p><strong>For Individuals:</strong></p>
<p>Make a point to interact more with your coworkers. Making friends with people at work can help protect you from burnout. Instead of getting on your phone during a break, talk to someone at work and be more sociable. It is a fact of life that peers may be going through similar stressors. Yet, they have found effective strategies to cope.</p>
<p>Peer to peer support is a great way to manage burnout. They can offer suggestions that you might find helpful. Moreover, consider scheduling activities outside of the workplace that you can do together.</p>
<p><strong>For Leaders:</strong><br />
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Ten ways organizational leaders can improve the wellness culture in the workplace and incorporate FABULOUS Transformation<img src="https://s.w.org/images/core/emoji/17.0.2/72x72/2122.png" alt="™" class="wp-smiley" style="height: 1em; max-height: 1em;" /> is to:</p>
<ol>
<li>Lead by example by talking about mental health and wellness, and a good work-life balance.</li>
<li>Share those things that you are grateful for and ask employees to do the same.</li>
<li>Assess whether you are micromanaging your employees and not giving them enough control or autonomy over their workflow.</li>
<li>Enforce the written job description by not asking an employee to do more than they are paid to do.</li>
<li>Evaluate ways for employees to have more flexibility.</li>
<li>Discuss ways to flourish and achieve personal growth by guiding employees and motivating them to make healthy decisions about their mental health.</li>
<li>Provide training in mindfulness and resilience to help eliminate anxiety and stress.</li>
<li>Establish a peer-to-peer support program.</li>
<li>Focus on workplace spirituality where employees can make meaning, align their values to the organization, and feel appreciated, which connects them to the outcome of their job.</li>
<li>Demonstrate ways for employees to be self-compassionate when they make mistakes at work and connect with them by sharing that you also make mistakes.</li>
</ol>
<p>All things considered, to effect genuine change in terms of employee burnout, leaders must acknowledge the pressing need for wellness as a preventative measure for burnout. It’s no secret that many workplaces are being transformed since the pandemic into a &#8220;safe haven&#8221; from the chaotic, hostile, and angry outside world.</p>
<p>The key point is that stress in the workplace cannot be eliminated. However, compassionate leaders control how they respond to it and know how to deal with the effects on employees before they have an impact on key performance indicators like revenue and profit. The bottom line is <a href="https://www.griefworkcenter.com/fabulous-transformation/" target="_blank" rel="nofollow noopener">FABULOUS Transformation<img src="https://s.w.org/images/core/emoji/17.0.2/72x72/2122.png" alt="™" class="wp-smiley" style="height: 1em; max-height: 1em;" /></a> is possible when you recognize the importance of a flexible mindset, a positive attitude, keeping your boundaries, being united, having a sense of humor, being optimistic, understanding job satisfaction, and being self-compassionate.</p>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 31 Oct 2023 15:57:06 +0000</pubDate>
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	<h2>International Stress Awareness Day is the first Wednesday in November</h2>
<p>Would you recommend your profession to others? <span style="color: #000000;"><a style="color: #000000;" href="https://www.griefworkcenter.com/first-responder-mental-health/" target="_blank" rel="noopener" data-schema-attribute="about">High stress occupations</a> </span>are EMT, 911 operators, military, medical, firefighters, and police officers. No matter what your job is, your reaction to stress is a risk factor for the development of depression. Mental strain can make you feel unsafe both at work and at home. If you are a first responder, you know what the impact of stress feels like.</p>
<h2><img decoding="async" class="aligncenter wp-image-1758" src="https://www.griefworkcenter.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/10/nurses-and-doctors.jpg" alt="nurses and doctors" width="579" height="386" srcset="https://www.griefworkcenter.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/10/nurses-and-doctors.jpg 640w, https://www.griefworkcenter.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/10/nurses-and-doctors-300x200.jpg 300w, https://www.griefworkcenter.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/10/nurses-and-doctors-600x400.jpg 600w" sizes="(max-width: 579px) 100vw, 579px" />Stress, Pressure, and Anxiety</h2>
<p>Stress is excessive pressure in your body. It builds up psychologically, physiologically, and behaviorally. As a first responder, you’re always under pressure. You chose a career that has moments of extreme stress. Although you try to find healthy ways to manage it, you may be stress eating, drinking too much, or isolating yourself. It may be impacting your marriage and the relationship you have with your children.</p>
<p>Perhaps you’re anxious. Anxiety is a feeling of tension and worry. You wind up feeling tired, shaky, and having palpitations. Although palpitations are usually harmless, they can cause you to feel constantly edge. You worry when you already have enough things to worry about. If your anxiety doesn’t go away, it can become an anxiety disorder and affect your physical health.</p>
<h3>Causes of <a href="https://www.griefworkcenter.com/first-responder-mental-health/"><span style="color: #000000;">First Responder Stress</span></a></h3>
<p>Imagine that you are in a room with other first responders. I ask you what is causing your stress. You raise your hand and tell me that your stress is due to, “financial issues, longer shifts, and an unhealthy relationship with your supervisor.” I then ask if your supervisor is in the room. You might be thinking about a million things at the same time, “poor management, a supervisor’s discipline style, workplace discrimination, being second guessed, frequent criticism, sexual harassment, lack recognition, denials of requested days off, or issues with confidentiality.”</p>
<p>Suppose the person sitting next to you raises their hand and says, “exposure to violence and personal injury.” Someone else shouts out, “organizational practices, bureaucracy, work schedules like long hours, shiftwork, night shift, and excessive overtime.” You might hear another first responder state, “dangerous job risks, violent confrontations with the public, or the possibility of being injured.”</p>
<p>I could imagine hearing someone reveal, “trauma, the way my body feels after a critical incident, serious accident, or when I’m exposed to suffering.” Maybe somebody would say, “co-worker relations or a lack of peer support.” Conceivably, with a smile, you could raise your hand again and share Reba McEntire’s quote, <em>“To thrive in life, you need three bones. A wishbone. A backbone. And a funny bone.”</em>  I’d chime in at that point and talk about having a sense of humor and gallows humor. A good laugh is a stress reliever. You can manage the symptoms of stress with humor!</p>
<h3><img decoding="async" class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-1756" src="https://www.griefworkcenter.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/10/first-responders.jpg" alt="first responders" width="640" height="427" srcset="https://www.griefworkcenter.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/10/first-responders.jpg 640w, https://www.griefworkcenter.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/10/first-responders-300x200.jpg 300w, https://www.griefworkcenter.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/10/first-responders-600x400.jpg 600w" sizes="(max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px" />Work-Family Synergy</h3>
<p><a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Work%E2%80%93family_conflict" target="_blank" rel="nofollow noopener" data-schema-attribute="mentions">Work-family conflict</a> causes signs of stress within the family. Perhaps someone would raise their hand and mention, “being a single parent, last minute plan cancellation, and being absent from family functions.” Someone feeling brave at that point may add, “marital difficulties, a disrupted family life, my family feeling stigma, and having a second job.”</p>
<h3>Acute Stress</h3>
<p>Acute stress is a fleeting emotional or physical stress response immediately felt after an overwhelming event. Symptoms can happen minutes or even hours later. Acute stress is usually short-term, lasting less than a month. Symptoms can include intrusive memories, uncontrolled anger, irritability, elevated heart rate, difficulty breathing, sweating, headache, chest, neck, stomach, and jaw pain, nausea, and feeling numb. Acute stress can become episodic acute stress due to the frequency of symptoms. For the most part, symptoms may be due to daily unreasonable demands or not having the resources to get the job done.</p>
<h3>Chronic Stress</h3>
<p>Although acute stress goes away quickly, that is not the case with chronic stress due to unending stressful situations at work. Absenteeism, turnover, alcohol abuse, sleep disorders, and suicide are huge problems. Symptoms linked to chronic or long-term stress include cardiovascular disease, such as high blood pressure, heart attack, and stroke. You might be on autopilot and not even realize the hold that chronic stress has on you.</p>
<h2><strong> </strong>Advice to Leaders</h2>
<p>First responders are dealing with personal issues, adverse childhood experiences that have never been managed, financial problems, failing marriages, unhealthy coping, and sleep issues. Departments and EAPs can update their agency policies on wellness while identifying best practices programs on safety and wellness. They need to ensure that any clinician recommended to provide mental health support is qualified to support a first responder. These clinicians need to understand unique first responder job-related stressors, the ways that they deal with them, and interventions that work <em>specifically</em> for them.</p>
<p>Jane Wagner said, “<em>r</em><em>eality is the leading cause of stress for those in touch with it.” </em>It’s time to get real and in touch with ways to manage stress. Many first responders have said to me that they are <em>just </em>doing <em>their job</em>. If that’s the case, they need to <em>just</em> find healthy ways to manage the stressors related to <em>their job</em>. It’s time to take control back. I recommend that you put your strengths into practice, live your values, make meaning of your role, and be grateful for what you can do serving others. Whether you speak to a peer, your spouse, or call 988, the bottom line is that you don’t have to struggle alone. Although <a href="https://www.charities.org/news/international-stress-awareness-day" target="_blank" rel="nofollow noopener" data-schema-attribute="about">International Stress Awareness Day</a> is the first Wednesday in November, for all first responders, such as those who are <em>Living Blue</em>, it needs to be every day.</p>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 01 Apr 2021 13:38:09 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Work-Life Balance]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Mental Health]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Stress]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[balance home and work]]></category>
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	<h2>Achieve balance between work and your personal life</h2>
<p>How in the world do you achieve <a href="https://www.griefworkcenter.com/blog/a-magical-way-to-get-over-burnout-at-work/">work-life balance</a> after the world changed due to the pandemic? Your assumptive world has been shattered and professional life has changed. For that matter, so has your personal life. For many, the workplace has moved to the kitchen table. For others, the hours spent in the actual workplace have increased, limiting time spent appreciating one’s nonwork life. Metaphorically, you need to navigate the new workplace landscape, without falling into the crevice caused by the pandemic. Your sands have shifted. Move cautiously to achieve work-life balance as you climb over the sand dune or drown in quicksand.</p>
<p><strong>Reflection</strong></p>
<p><em>Some professionals know that they are drowning in quicksand when they experience stomach aches, headaches, eat too much, or abuse</em><em> alcohol or drugs. How would you know if you are drowning in quicksand?</em></p>
<h3><strong>Finding the proper balance and maintaining it is easier said than done</strong></h3>
<p>No matter what industry you are involved with, it is extremely important to find and maintain a healthy equilibrium in your life. Of course, finding the proper balance and maintaining it is easier said than done. We all have stresses pulling on us from every direction, including stress from home, work, family, co-workers, and more. Normally, you are able to balance this tug of war without too much trouble, but during periods of high stress, things can unravel.</p>
<h3>When Two Worlds Collide</h3>
<p>Your world revolves around life at work. A workplace functions as roles and responsibilities spin into each other. Job content is where you have control over your job performance and autonomy, which helps you do your job well. On the other hand, job context is where the organization has the control, such as being responsible for working conditions and salary. Working arrangements are in place as well as employment relationships. The world also revolves around nonwork life, home, family, and friends. If you do not have work life balance, job performance will suffer. In the perfect world, you are engaged in work life and nonwork life with minimal conflict between your role at home and at work. However, this is often not the case. The stress of two worlds colliding can be overwhelming.</p>
<p><strong><img decoding="async" class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-2338" src="https://www.griefworkcenter.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/04/When-Two-Worlds-Collide.png" alt="" width="816" height="468" srcset="https://www.griefworkcenter.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/04/When-Two-Worlds-Collide.png 816w, https://www.griefworkcenter.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/04/When-Two-Worlds-Collide-300x172.png 300w, https://www.griefworkcenter.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/04/When-Two-Worlds-Collide-768x440.png 768w" sizes="(max-width: 816px) 100vw, 816px" />Work-life balance is</strong>:</p>
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<li>a concept that focuses on calculating time working with what you need to accomplish in your personal life, without sacrificing the quality of your job performance.</li>
<li>achieved when organizations create flexible work arrangements for their employees.</li>
<li>a personal preference that helps you make the balancing act of work and home life more manageable.</li>
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<h2>Remote Working and Flexible Working Schedule</h2>
<p><em>Remote working</em> is where the employee works at home or another place that is not considered the usual place to do one’s job. There has been an increase in remote working. For many, their job is no longer a traditional fixed place. This detaches many employees from an organizational workplace to a remote working environment, usually one’s home. This shift is linked to a commitment to one’s job, more job satisfaction, and job‐related well‐being. <em>Work flexibility</em> is a family-friendly policy that offers control over working time duration and location of work. It departs from the customary time and place of the job and is not about reducing working time. Work flexibility offers time variation to work, place to work, and job share.</p>
<p><strong>Reflection</strong></p>
<p><em>If your organization offered work flexibility, how would you put it into practice?</em></p>
<h2>An Experienced Life Balance Speaker</h2>
<p>The right work life balance speaker can help provide valuable insight to those who need it most. Discover new and inventive ways to handle the everyday stresses of life. Build resiliency so that you feel motivated and excited, not overwhelmed.</p>
<p>Stress can be a real positive in your life if you know how to channel it correctly, and a smart life balance speaker like Barbara Rubel can provide the tools you and your staff need to prevent burnout and compassion fatigue and regain a positive and productive outlook on life.</p>
<p>When it comes to choosing the right work life balance speaker, you want to choose someone who has the life experiences and the proven track record of performance that Barbara Rubel does. The productivity of your workforce is too important and too fragile to risk on a speaker that doesn&#8217;t know how to connect with and motivate an audience.</p>
<p>You should look for a person that uses a blend of honest life experience, humor, and touching insight to connect on an honest and forthright level with those that need it most. With a signature individualized experience for all participants, Barbara Rubel is a humorous speaker that is ready to help your participants realize their true potential. Barbara customizes her programs and is the right speaker on issues related to stress management, burnout, compassion fatigue prevention and resiliency in the workplace.</p>
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